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Friday, October 28, 2011

AS TIME PASSES


Can you believe it is going to be November already? I really don't like how quickly the years seem to pass. I thought I would share one of my pet peeves with you. I don't like the gravestones on the lawns for Halloween. I don't like the term R.I.P. either. It just rubs me the wrong way. It seems cheap to me yet I see people use it all the time. I'm not saying that I don't wish for people to rest in peace I just don't like when people use the initials. Most likely because it reminds me of the Halloween tombstones and death is so much more than that.

I don't like costume parties either but I love that other people do. I have a few decorations but they are all cute, not scary! The best part of Halloween for me is handing out the candy to the children at the door. For many years now we have been giving out the big candy bars. We buy the packages at Costco. Let me tell you that the joy the children express just brings a smile to my face. It's worth every penny I spend!


I you or someone you know is in need of a handkerchief to catch their tears please email me at dpucci9972@gmail.com . I will need a brief description of who passed away, a full name, address and a blog link if one is available. Please make sure I have an email to reach you at. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. ((HUGS))

4 comments:

Shannon said...

Hi Debby,

I agree!!! Thank you for writing this post!!! I've never ever like anything really about Halloween (except dressing up as a child). I dislike the scary aspects too. And the graves...it bothers me even more so since I lost my son Ethan last year. We participate in Trunk or Treat at the church (not sure what we will do this year) where it is a safe, friendly environment. The full size candy bars are so nice! I remember as a child the people who would hand those or even money out, and it was super exciting for me. :) God bless you!

Shannon said...

Oh, and yes...I also am not a fan of the R.I.P either! My son isn't reasting in peace, he is joyful and full of life, living in heaven with our Saviour!! That sounds much more wonderful that resting in peace in a coffin. I'm sorry to be graphic, but I am highly bothered by the R.I.P. Again, thank you for posting this blog...you stole the words outta my mouth! ;)

Caroline said...

Great post & I love the candy & seeing the children but other than that I don't go all out for Halloween. I just take the children to a few houses & I'm done. I don't like the black the color & it all reminds me of death which to me isn't anything to be fun about.

Lisa @ Two Bears Farm said...

I like Halloween but I have my kids wear fun costumes, not scary ones.

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