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Saturday, September 3, 2011

THE SECRET SOCIETY


As you know I have a heart for Baby Lost Mother's. (BLM) I am not a member of the Secret Society and was very naive for the first 57 years of my life. I personally know a few people who have lost their children and my own daughter suffered a miscarriage several years ago but I never knew the numbers. Here is a link to HOPEXCHANGE that will show you the numbers. (Please go over and look at this) I have tried to spread the word through my blogs on the importance of knowing the hearts of these women, knowing what they are going through and what you need to know to help them through this horrific journey of grief they are on. I had tried several times to write to Oprah thinking that her show would be the perfect venue to get the word out. This is a SECRET SOCIETY because no one wants to talk about it.

My dear friend Laura at MOMENTS OF PAUSE has written a wonderful post about something so simple as the tag that is going around on Facebook to bring awareness to breast cancer. It seems like an innocent tag to most but to those who have suffered the loss of their baby or have infertility issues can be hurt when they see this. I don't go on Facebook often and actually didn't know about this until I read Laura's post. Then shortly after I read it I got an email from my niece sharing this tag with me. Most likely I would have played it too just like Laura did.

This is where God comes into play and His timing is always perfect. Laura heals people with her beautiful posts. Those who are newer BLM can feel comfort in reading her posts but she can only reach so many people so spreading the word like I am doing now will bring others to her post. God definitely had a reason for the timing of how I received both of these emails.

I am not saying anyone is wrong for playing this tag. I think I did the bra one last year. So far I haven't found anything saying that this tag is actually supporting breast cancer awareness. I also know that we cannot protect people from getting hurt or having pain because of this. I just wanted to bring awareness to my BLM whom I love and felt the need to share the post written by Laura.

If you are in need of a handkerchief for yourself or someone dear to you who has lost a loved one please email me at dpucci9972@gmail.com . I will need a full name, address, a brief description of who passed away and a link to a blog if you have one. Take care and God Bless.

Love,

5 comments:

Joanna said...

THANK YOU Debby for taking on the challenge of spreading the word. We appreciate it!!!

Kelly @ Sufficient Grace Ministries said...

Love you Debby...thanks for your beautiful heart for grieving mamas. I believe God has laid this compassion on your heart...

Holly said...

Laura did have a great post!

Deni said...

Thank you!!

Laura said...

I love you Debby! Thank you so very much!!! I need to catch up on my blog reading... back to work is killing me right now... 11:31 and the morning will come soon! (((hugs)))

SPECIAL REQUEST: I would sincerely appreciate it if you did not share my Ministry on Facebook or Pinterest so I can continue to mail out my handkerchief's. These audiences are just too big for my small ministry.....thank you.

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This blog is my way of sending love to women who have unbelievable heartache after the loss of their child. I will send a handkerchief to catch all their tears. Debby

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Sent With Love To:

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Sent With Love To:

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Sent With Love To:

Shana - Holly - Tina - Christy - Juliet - Michele - Shalini - Brianne - Heather - Ashley - Marge - Emily - Susan - Kerry - Robin - Eliza - Cara - Kate - Jodi - Kara - Laura - Sarita - Jen - Nichole - Celia - Christina - Emalee - Heather - Mary - Leanna Nimoli - Jennifer - Danielle - Moriah - Amy - Katie - Angela - Michelle - Lindsey - Sally - Kristy - Celeste -Nicolle - Courtney - Karen - Nancy - Mirne - Lisa - Tiffany - Heather - Joyce - Andrea - Franchesca - Stephanie - Colleen - Jenna -Cristin - Laura - Malory - Angela - Rebecca - Shannon - Sara - Yelena - Selena - Heather - Lisette - Juanita - Brenda -Miss Stansberry - Crystal - Chanda - Brenda - Jill - Jennifer - Andrea - Meris - Cora - Lisa - Barbara - Michelle - Rhonda - Marina - Wendy - Sarhi - Alexxandra - Laura - Holly - Angela - Misty - Jessica - Sandy - Debbie - Heather - Crystal - Michielle - Amanda - Katy - Allison - Cori - Shandrea - Deni - Betty - Emily - Pamela - Amanda - Sarah - Krissy - April

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